Things I'm Thankful For

As the Thanksgiving Holiday is fast approaching, we start to consider the things in our life that we are really thankful for. It is sad for me that we are either too busy or too focused on the now to do this more often.

Here is my Thanks list so far (not necessarily in order of importance):

My family first and foremost. My husband who goes to work for us everyday without complaining (or mostly ;)) so that I can stay home with the kids. That he loves sharing his sports with me. My two beautiful children that I have the privilege to watch grow up more every day. What a blessing they are too me! Usually one or both has me wanting to pull out my hair at some point during the day, but they sure do keep it interesting!

My MOPS group who are always encouraging us to recognize our value (we had a speaker on that subject just this last week). I sometimes get caught up in the faulty idea that since I'm not out earning a living, I am not as valuable as the other women I know who are either Partners or Owners of their companies. But, what I forget is that I am raising up the next generation of leaders! And besides that, I have immeasurable value just being me and it's not based on anything more then just who I am.

My friends and family that keep me sane through their encouragement and often their helping with the kids. Beth especially, who visits and babysit for us once a week. I love it that my sister is developing strong bonds with her niece and nephew, and I don't have to worry about how they are doing when Jake and I are out together.

My great relationship with my Mother-In-Law. How many people dread the holidays because they have to spend it with the In-Laws? I absolutely love this time of year because it is another excuse to be around Jake's incredible family. Marlin is an absolute sweetheart and reminds me a lot of my dad. Cody, his brother, always keeps me laughing and entertained. And I have a great relationship with his mom Lori whom I love! She is always there for us with non-judgemental advice if we need/want it and she is 100% devoted to her grandchildren! I couldn't ask for more. Sadly, Katie, Ryan, Taylor and Logan won't be there this holiday as they've moved to India, but we'll be thinking of them!

Starbucks. Ok, now don't laugh. I love my Starbucks break! Somehow I get a warm cup of whatever I feel like on the few occasions now we splurge and I instantly feel myself relax. Jake and I have been really trying to crack down on our budget and we've had to cut back a lot on this simple pleasure. But I was so excited yesterday when my friend Ben, who asked me to write a letter of recommendation for him, gave me a $25 Starbucks card as thanks. It meant a lot to me and came at just the right time! Thanks Ben!!! Now Jake and I get to enjoy some yummy goodness on our way to and from Oregon this week (we were just about out of our allowance for the month and were going to have to chose one way or the other). Also, once a week I go sit down at Starbucks and read for an hour or so to get some ME time. It's lovely!

I think that's going to have to suffice for now because Allie has been playing tea in her high-chair for the last hour and is one soaking wet little girl. I can actually hear her behind me slapping the tray and splashing the water that didn't make it in her little teacup, all over the place. Little Monkey!